Question 1 · Medium
A patient with borderline personality disorder tells one nurse, 'You are the only one who understands me; the others are cruel.' The most appropriate nursing approach is to:
- AReport the other nurses' behaviour to the ward in-charge
- BAvoid talking to her so as not to encourage this
- CBecome her single assigned nurse so that she feels secure
- DKeep firm limits that the whole team applies the same way
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Answer: D · Keep firm limits that the whole team applies the same way
Idealising one staff member and devaluing others is splitting, common in borderline personality disorder. It divides the team unless everyone gives the same limits and responses. The nurse does not accept the special role and discusses the pattern in team meetings. Consistency reduces manipulation and builds trust.
- A: Acting on her complaint against colleagues is exactly what splitting provokes.
- B: Withdrawal feels like rejection and can trigger self-harm.
- C: Accepting a special role feeds the splitting.